Here are three phrases that will bless our wives and strengthen our marriages. They are words that are not to be spoken frivolously, but we should say them often, even many times a day.
* "I love you." Too often we assume our wives know this, and that it doesn't need to be said again. But these words should be said daily to our wives. To counter the pain from any critical words we say, the words "I love you," spoken with deep sincerity while looking her in the eye, breathe fresh life into our marriages.
* "I'm sorry...please forgive me." I have many opportunities to say these words. I make my biggest mistakes at home, and home is the place I have to practice these humble words most often. More than just "I'm sorry," adding "please forgive me" invites a necessary response from my wife. Will she indeed actively forgive me for whatever I said or did? Then will she choose not to remember it against me, just as the Lord chooses not to remember our forgiven sin against us? (Men, we also need to practice this same kind of forgiveness toward our wives!)
* "Thank you for _____." More than just a general word of thanks, it is good to be specific. My wife needs to hear very specific things for which I am thankful; these words communicate love and appreciation to the very depths of her heart. Thank you for the extra time you spent to prepare this wonderful meal. Thank you for being so patient with the overtime hours I spent at work. Thank you for taking the children to the pool today. Thank you for cleaning up that corner I had hoped to clean before now. Thank you for ______ -- there is an endless list of things I'm thankful that my wife does. For her benefit, I need to say it to her often.
May these simple phrases bless your wife as you practice them in your marriage. These are good words to use regularly with our children, too.
By God's grace, may our homes be filled with encouraging words that reflect His love to our wives and children.
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